Am I talking to real people?
No, and that's the point. Every opponent in FlirtDojo is AI, and we label it everywhere. That's what makes it a dojo: a sparring partner who never gets tired, never judges you, and never screenshots your worst opener to a group chat.
Is this an NSFW thing?
No. FlirtDojo is PG-13 with a spark: flirty, playful, never explicit. The game is about charm, wit and reading people. Skills, not skin.
Does practicing on AI actually make me better?
The same way sparring makes fighters better: reps plus honest feedback. The opponents punish the habits that flop in real conversations, like lazy openers, interview-mode questions and stalled momentum, and the coach shows you the pattern so you can fix it. What you train here is timing, playfulness and attention, and those travel.
What exactly is the heat meter?
Her interest, made visible: a 0 to 10 meter that reacts to every message you send. Effort and wit push it up, laziness and hesitation pull it down. She moves through five registers on the way: skeptical, cracking, curious, warm, won. Her tone genuinely changes at each one.
What is the momentum bar?
After she replies, a bar starts draining, roughly a minute from warm to cold. Let it run out and the heat drops a point. It trains presence: real conversations die from hesitation more often than from bad lines.
What counts as winning?
Heat 10 and a rizz score of 8+ in the same session. It's deliberately hard. Most people don't beat a level on the first try, which is exactly why beating one feels the way it does.
What does it cost?
Starting is free with no card: real fights, real rizz checks. VIP is $9.99/month for the full roster, unlimited sparring, coach history and belt progression. Cancel anytime with one tap.
How is this different from Rizzly-style screenshot apps?
Those apps answer your messages for you. Useful in the moment, but you're renting someone else's game by the week, and it disappears the day you stop paying. FlirtDojo builds your own game through practice. Train here, then go win without a crutch.
Are there male opponents?
The launch roster is six female opponents. The roster grows over time, including male opponents, and VIP members get new opponents first.
Do you sell my conversations?
No. Your sessions are used to run the game and generate your coach reports, and that is it. See the privacy policy for the full picture.
How do I cancel or delete my account?
Cancel VIP with one tap in your account. Deleting your account removes your profile and conversation history. Also one tap, also no interrogation.
How old do I need to be?
18 or older. It's a dating-context game, so we keep it adults-only even though the content stays PG-13.